Herbert Kutlow

Herbert M. Kutlow passed away on July 23, 2024, at the age of 89 in Carlsbad, CA. Born in New York City on November 14, 1934, Herb was known for his generosity, fun-loving nature, dedication to his family and sense of humor. 

Herb attended Horace Mann School, then earned a BA from Columbia College at Columbia University.  He was an avid athlete, playing basketball at Columbia alongside notable teammates such as Charlie Brown, Ted Dwyer, Chet Forte, Fred Lane and Frank Thomas. Later in life, he enjoyed hiking and working out daily at the gym with his wife, Dee Kutlow. 

Herb served as a lieutenant in the US Navy from 1956 to 1965, including several years at the Pentagon. He made his professional mark as a stockbroker, working with prestigious New York firms including Drexel Burnham Lambert and Smith Barney.

After relocating to San Diego, California in 1994, he became a beloved assistant high school basketball coach, earning the nickname "Coach Nightmare" for his "old school" coaching style.

Herb is survived by his loving wife, Dee Kutlow, sister Rosalee Lubell, his children Jay Kutlow (Diana), Wendy Best (Kevin), Penny Tyson (Mark), and five grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents, Benjamin and Edythe Kutlow, sister Lenore Tobin, and grandson James Best.

In keeping with his wishes, no services will be held. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory to veterans’ organizations are welcome.       

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